How many times have you said to yourself, for whatever reason, "THIS year is going to be different"?
You just have a feeling though that perhaps or probably, you're wrong.
Every summer for the past 4 years I have done this very thing.
You see, I love flowers. I love my old house. And when I can combine the two, it's a wonderful marriage.
I buy hanging baskets every spring. Always I'm excited. Always I'm determined that "this year will be different." This year, I will be ever so diligent. I will not let them die! I will do everything "right" so I can enjoy their loveliness into September.
Yet every year, something has managed to go awry.
I buy hanging baskets every spring. Always I'm excited. Always I'm determined that "this year will be different." This year, I will be ever so diligent. I will not let them die! I will do everything "right" so I can enjoy their loveliness into September.
Yet every year, something has managed to go awry.
Let me explain.
We have this, big older home, with a front porch that is perfect for hanging plants. The flowers make sitting on the front porch something I want to do on those cool summer evenings, enjoying the breeze. We don't have A/C, so I appreciate it even more. Basking in the scent of those lovely hanging baskets, sipping some lemonade, even? As cliche as this may be, it's on my list of loves.
[Note: Not all hanging plants are equal. I've found a great greenhouse where I can get these amazingly fertile, bright, and lush hanging plants. Not the run-of-the-mill kind sold at your chain stores.]
After 4 summers, I think I'm finally confident enough to say that this summer, yes, this summer, I will NOT kill my hanging plants. Do you think I'm setting myself up for disappointment?
Here's my sad history with the hanging plants I love so much:
1st year: Plants thrived for a week, then slowly went downhill. I didn't realize that I need to fertilize the plants, especially since the nutrients are depleted with each watering.
Also, don't hang your plants up high. Since heat rises, the higher the plant hangs, the hotter it is for the tender plant. It's essentially like putting your plant in an oven. So, hang the plant from a chain, like so--
2nd year: Someone actually STOLE one of our hanging plants. Can you believe it? That's like stealing, I don't know, someone's Bible or journal. It's just plain wrong. You'd think people who enjoy flowers would be cultured. They can appreciate their beauty, therefore, they'd be above stealing, right? I guess not.
Further, I got lax in my attention to watering. Not a good thing, especially in the middle of July, in Utah, when the scorching, dry, heat combined with lack of watering is enough to kill even the most resilient of plants. This was the year I learned the importance of consistency & diligence. A huge watering once a week is not the same as watering a smaller amount every day, turns out.
3rd year: I was diligent up through July. Then we went out of town. And no one can love your plants like you can (the neighbor boy swears he watered them every day). We came back and my once thriving plants were now dried up, withered, crisped by the heat & lack of water. I cried.
THIS YEAR: I've had the plants 2 days & so far they look great, don't they?
I'm going to finally do it. They are going to live. Every day, like a diligent mama, I'm going to water & fertilize those things as if my life depended on it.
Because sometimes, it just takes a few years to get the hang of things. Maybe it's the optimist in me, but I have a feeling this year is going to be different, right?
{More loveliness. Pansies. I'm going to plant them to line my front walk.}
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Have you ever, despite the best of intentions, completely destroyed something beautiful?
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Yikes! Stealing a hanging basket? I've never heard of that! :-/
ReplyDeleteOh please make the next post about grocery shopping and saving money. Would also love to see a weeks shopping trip and what you might buy. Also do you only shop once a week? I assume being Mormon you have an abundance of non perishables on hand at all times, but I wonder how much in perishables you buy each week. Also, I checked out dreena Burton's book from the library and made the sweet and sour you posted, it was delish! The kids were a little suspect of the "chicken" but ate most of it. I am really enjoying your blog. I'm only now considering vegan diet and have learned a lot from your experience. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteKitkat048: I know, I was as surprised as you. The funniest thing is, picturing an image someone, in the middle of the night, taking a piece of patio furniture, climbing up to reach high enough to get the basket down, & then running off with it. What a pathetic image.
ReplyDeleteErika: You're in luck! Today's post will be just that. This is one of the biggest concerns people have about eating a more plant-based diet, which is, how can I afford it?
So glad you found Dreena's book. I highly recommend any of her cookbooks, they are all fantastic. I use ED & BV several times a week, & can't wait to try her new one.
Glad this blog has been some help to you, thanks for reading!
You also forget the unfortunate angle at which your house faces and where you put the plants: facing the southern, summer sun! All that direct sunlight is rough, expecially in Utah. That really does take extra TLC to not let die. (Plants in your back yard have more of a fighting chance.)
ReplyDeleteHanging flowers are so beautiful, though. Ahhh... I can practically smell them through my screen.
Melissa: It's a delicate balance, because you want them to get enough sun, not too little, but not too much.
ReplyDeleteYou're right though, & I haven't thought of that aspect. I'm sure if I had a back porch to hang the plants they'd do much better there with the angle and amount of sunshine there.